Need mo imatch or surpass yung level nila or give off the impression that you can give more than you can actually give, cougars won't go with men na aasikasuhin pa nila, hinahanap nyan mostly the same or more maturity than them but the body of a younger man, emphasized yan lalo na sa mga older independent women, wag maging pabigat sakanila hahaha and if ever given the chance, focus sa needs and pleasure nila sa kama, para makaulit ka, thrill and stamina and alas mo, don't waste it