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Tried shooting my shot

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I went to this bar last night. Ang ingay, pero sakto lang ,chill vibe. I was just sitting there with a beer when I saw this girl, same age as me. Cute, classy, parang approachable. So I thought, sige na nga, try lang.


I went over, started some small talk about the music being too loud. She laughed , and i htought so far so good. We talked for maybe an hour, just random stuff: work, hobbies, kung bakit nandun kami that night. She was cool, man, like I actually enjoyed it.


So later, medyo tipsy na, I asked, ‘Hey… gusto mo bang lumabas pa after this? Maybe, my place?’


She smiled but you know that polite smile? Sabi niya, ‘You’re nice… but no.’


Ayun, game over. I just laughed, raised my glass, told her, ‘Fair enough. Cheers.’


Umuwi ako mag-isa, pero okay lang. At least I tried, diba? Mas okay na yun kaysa nag overthink buong gabi.”
 
advise lang par! meeting someone sa bar is fun and exciting, pero isipin mo rin long-term. kasi minsan, kung magka-problema kayo or may relapse, chances are babalik siya sa parehong lugar kung saan mo siya unang nakilala. nothing wrong with that, pero baka mahirap kung gusto mo ng mas stable na relationship. kung seryoso ka, make sure na may connection kayo outside the bar scene. mas safe yun para hindi kayo paulit-ulit sa cycle. yun lang peace brother!
 

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