Tips & Advice How often do couples actually have sex after 5+ years together?

[Ruptures]

I've seen everything from "every day" to "once a month," so I'm curious what real experiences are like.


If you've been in a long-term relationship:

• Has your sex life changed over time?
• What affected it the most?
• Are you both happy with the current frequency?

Looking for honest answers without judging anyone.

 

[lllllanjas9o]

well naka depende sa set up nyo may mga busy sched talaga e and hindi maiiwasan na pag uwi pagod na parehas sa set up namin halos once a week nalang e, i am happy? well hindi ko masabi lagi kami nag ttry ng new things para hindi boring and paulet ulet, and yes talagang pag nag tatagal mararamdaman mo na nakakawlaang gana den e pero nakadepende na yan sa set up nyo kung paano usap nyo jan sa ngayon kase binabawi namin sa ibang bagay like hiking fitness journey travel kapag may free days kami

 

[OfficialBoiph]

Depende talaga. Pag busy yung isa wala ka magagawa kung ayaw nyo mag away wag na pilitin pero nung mga bago bago pa lang kami ng jowa ko mag 5yrs na kami next year. Nung bago pa kami 2 times a week ata kami nagsesex ganadong ganado pa kami lagi magkita para lang magsex. Pero nung tumagal at nagiba na yung mga sched namin nagiging once a month na lang swerte na lang pag nag 2x a month. Hehe.

 

[goonlanyard]

Yes. Dati halos araw-araw and multiple times per day. Ngayon at least once a week. Max is around 3 times a week.

Busy sched and bumaba na sex drive naming dalawa.

Yes, we're both happy. Naging form of bonding nalang namin after work or if di kami nagkita ng matagal.