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bobthebuilder23

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May maaadvise ba kayo sa akin 27(M) na may fineshyt na 23(F) tungkol sa sex?

Lately kasi napapansin namin na hindi tumitigas o kaya mabilis na lumiliit si junjun during sex kaya ending nabibitin kami parehas na nauuwi sa tampuhan. Makikihingi naman ng advice, natatakot din akong uminom ng enhancers dahil may sakit ako sa puso.
 
sexual intimacy is not limited to your junior only, it puts you on a different plane if kaya mong isatisfy si bebe mo.. many ways. kamayin mo, dilaan mo, bahala kayo mag explore. basta mag explore kayo, di yung nag tatampuhan kayo agad. be adventurous, andaming avenues ng pleasure gar.
 
For me, if ever na talagang parang mahina na si Junjun after 1st round or during biglang nawawala ang tikas niya. pwedeng performance anxiety, sa sobrang kakaisip mong "ayaw ko siya mabitin" ganito ganyan, mas lalong nauuwi sa ganon.

Base to sa experience ko din dati sa ex ko, nagkakatampuhan din kami about dito. maraming factors to consider kasi bakit nag kakaganon, kaya tama din si pareng Murphy Cascade about dito. Much better mag consult ka sa specialist about dito, pero may mga ilang bagay akong binago at ginawa para maging "MAS" sa current state ko dati na halos self explanatory na din pag nabasa mo.

1. Enough sleep before bakbakan.
2. Eat good food! good diet pampagaan ng pakiramdam.

Lastly, 3. Try something new with your partner. try niyo mag explore ng mga kinks niyo para mas exciting ang bakbakan di lang basta bira kung bira agad.

I Hope this helps bro!
 
For me, if ever na talagang parang mahina na si Junjun after 1st round or during biglang nawawala ang tikas niya. pwedeng performance anxiety, sa sobrang kakaisip mong "ayaw ko siya mabitin" ganito ganyan, mas lalong nauuwi sa ganon.

Base to sa experience ko din dati sa ex ko, nagkakatampuhan din kami about dito. maraming factors to consider kasi bakit nag kakaganon, kaya tama din si pareng Murphy Cascade about dito. Much better mag consult ka sa specialist about dito, pero may mga ilang bagay akong binago at ginawa para maging "MAS" sa current state ko dati na halos self explanatory na din pag nabasa mo.

1. Enough sleep before bakbakan.
2. Eat good food! good diet pampagaan ng pakiramdam.

Lastly, 3. Try something new with your partner. try niyo mag explore ng mga kinks niyo para mas exciting ang bakbakan di lang basta bira kung bira agad.

I Hope this helps bro!A
Need nya rin ng payo ng doctor lalo na may sakit pa sya sa puso which is nakakatakot. 😔
 
could be many things. hindi ko mapipin point which because you need self awareness for it.

could it be you are not that attracted? or nagsawa ka na? or mentally you are not being aroused, not just physically? are you stressed, tired? are you clueless and don't know what else to do beyond vanilla?

Madalas kasi mental / psychological sya. ako naman, it helps that i take sildenafil or taladafil as enhancement, not because i need it. the effect is, i stay hard no matter what. im aroused, and i maintain my arousal by doing things that would make my girl more arousing to me. Kissing, doing things that trigger my fetishes, get her horny, pent up, built up, seeing flushed ganun.

I go flaccid after i cum. but becuase of the sildenafil, wala pa yatang 3 mins tigas ulit ako and ready for the next round asap.


You will need to consider every single angle possible bakit ganun and hopefully you get to figure out why. Sometimes the reason is something you didn't expect.
 
For me, if ever na talagang parang mahina na si Junjun after 1st round or during biglang nawawala ang tikas niya. pwedeng performance anxiety, sa sobrang kakaisip mong "ayaw ko siya mabitin" ganito ganyan, mas lalong nauuwi sa ganon.

Base to sa experience ko din dati sa ex ko, nagkakatampuhan din kami about dito. maraming factors to consider kasi bakit nag kakaganon, kaya tama din si pareng Murphy Cascade about dito. Much better mag consult ka sa specialist about dito, pero may mga ilang bagay akong binago at ginawa para maging "MAS" sa current state ko dati na halos self explanatory na din pag nabasa mo.

1. Enough sleep before bakbakan.
2. Eat good food! good diet pampagaan ng pakiramdam.

Lastly, 3. Try something new with your partner. try niyo mag explore ng mga kinks niyo para mas exciting ang bakbakan di lang basta bira kung bira agad.

I Hope this helps bro!
napansin ko actually nagstart to when i gained weight. Simula noon napansin ko na parang ang bilis ko mapagod o kaya naman e bigla na lang talagang manlalambot si junjun.

I am attracted to my girl, yes, pero nasisira kasi yung mood kapag nakikita mo na siyang disappointed and dissatisfied at sinisisi niya sarili niya telling she’s not pretty yadda yadda, and that makes me feel like sht and I don’t know how to comeback.
 
napansin ko actually nagstart to when i gained weight. Simula noon napansin ko na parang ang bilis ko mapagod o kaya naman e bigla na lang talagang manlalambot si junjun.

I am attracted to my girl, yes, pero nasisira kasi yung mood kapag nakikita mo na siyang disappointed and dissatisfied at sinisisi niya sarili niya telling she’s not pretty yadda yadda, and that makes me feel like sht and I don’t know how to comeback.
I see, so semi-aware ka din na factor yung pag gain mo ng weight. try mo mag small steps sa weight issue mo. kahit simpleng bawas sa kain + 5kms walking bro I tell you, magiiba pakiramdam mo. Try mo din mag resistance training pero light lang wag ka mag hard push masyado, just to feel good and light pero if you feel na parang bitin and all try mo din ng gradual increase and mag add ka ng weights like dumbbells. About 2-3 times a week siguro niyang mga yan might help you boost your confidence + boost your testosterone!
 

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