I'm sensing something.
May nakausap ako last year, nearing the end of the year. Around that age lang din. Altho, hindi ko sure kung siya yon talaga or poser lang. I mean, favors din ang hinihingi eh. Altho di ko binibigay. Once or twice lang ata. Hindi ko siya nakita in person the whole period na nakakausap ko siya.
The thing is, same sila ng vibe. Curious na curious sa sex or nagpapahiwatig na gusto ng sex. One time she was not feeling well, kasi may mga problems daw siya. I sent a comforting message. Ang reply ba naman "thank you, can we fuck?"
"please fuck mo ko, para makalimutan ko na mga problem ko". I didn't of course. Didn't engage sa ganong path ng convo.
Point is, I think the absence of the parents are playing a role sa ganyang actions niya. They WANT to get everything that they want. Including sex. I believe tho, na parents should be responsible in guiding them about that topic.
Conclusion, tingin ko once na makuha niya yung gusto niya talaga baka magiba na din siya ng pakikitungo eh hahaha. Naiisip ko lang haha Siguro naghahanap lang talaga siya ng tao or something.
Di siya grooming kasi wala namang ginawa or pinakitang intention 3 years ago. First time ko lang naman siya nameet noon — ni hindi nga kami close, as in magkakakilala lang. By definition, if walang steps na ginawa to gain the child’s trust or any form of enticement or manipulation nung first meet, then it doesn’t count as grooming. The hell are you talking about?
Yes tama. Eto yung misconception sa grooming. But it is a very sensitive topic so I don't blame them. Anyways, again by definition, as long as WALANG GINAWANG MANIPULATION OR TAKING OF ADVANTAGES, it is not considered grooming.