It really depends kasi sa preference ng partner mo, so better makipag communicate ka.
some like it slow, gentle and intimate.
some like it rough, hard at wild talaga.
better talk to her about her preferences, kung saan siya mas nasa-satisfy...
Communicate. Ask her what she wants you to do and how she wants you to do it. Some women cum from penetration, some from clit stim. It always depends on the person.