based on my experience, maraming babae na hina-hide kanilang kalibugan. i asked many of my girl friends (not girlfriends ah hahaha) about that sex talk and open naman lahat. most told me they read about the man who's pefect like yung mga wattpad stuff na guys or sa mga non-fiction novel and kung paano ginagawa nila through story telling like "then he grabbed me by the neck and whispered "be a good girl and take it". I embraced my legs around his hips and took it." something like this turns them on and i don't know if they play/rub their pussy to this hahahaha (siguro?). So for me, most men open sa kalibugan pero the women have hidden lust, especially if talagang tipong-tipo nila yung guy. so yeah, depende nalang sa tao yan lods, there's no definitive answer but this is my take. karamihan ng babae tago ang kalibugan