I'm affection deprived and touch-starved and I don't know what to do.

[Mariyah Takeuchi]

Hi(M22), matagal na akong lurker sa phc nsfw category, I always find fulfilling contents for my sexual desires and all. Pero ngayon lang naghit sa'kin lahat, I just wanna be loved, I just want to receive pure affection and love from the right person

I only have 1 ex and 1 body count, I'm good looking naman and pasok sa taste in general, but I always find myself alone. Nagda-dalawang isip ako if ita-try ko ba 'yung fubu setup -- I was also a lurker sa ****** as well.

I just don't know what to do at this point, lumalabas naman ako and I have friends naman kaso parang wala lang talaga akong gana kumilala ng ibang tao: i think this is the problem about me, hirap akong mag-adjust.

I'll really appreciate any suggestions, opinions and thoughts. I know I'm not alone. I just wanna thank phc kasi nage-exist 'tong forum na 'to but at the same time hindi naman p'wedeng dito na lang ako mags-stay habang buhay.

 

[dildongdantes]

I advise na kumilala lang ng ibang tao boss, fubu setup or ano man 'yan, exploring is the key lang talaga para mahanap mo tunay na kaligayahan.

consider also working out, mag-story ka ganiyan para mapansin ka ng mga tao. Umiikot na ngayon sa tech ang pagkikilala. hahaha

 

[Numero]

Try mo mga dating site I tried fubu once but no string attached kami, pero mahirap sa mga babae ang fubu kasi na fafall kayo not unlike samin sex lng talaga

 

[xzfdsgf]

Ganyan talaga chief, hanap ka ibang hobbies and join ka ng mga groups kung san pwede ka makahanap ng kakilala

 

[CryptoLaboon]

Eh kung gusto mo naman pala na you just wanna be loved, wag ka maghahanap ng fubu or anything that doesn’t involve “love” at all. Kasi ikaw lang talo sa ganun lalo na’t alam mo naman sa sarili mo na gusto mo ng mamahalin ka, walang pagmamahal sa no strings attached at purely sexual innuendos lang. Pero kung kinakailangan mo mag hanap ng katawan, siguraduhin mong kaya mo at hindi ka ma f-fall. You need to love yourself, bata ka pa kung tutuusin at madami ka pang pwedeng pagka abalahan, you have all the time. Hanap ka hobbies mo, go work out? Hit the gym. Or anything that will feel like na “ang sarap mabuhay” appreciate little things broski. Sooner or later you’ll find the one that will fulfill the love that you want.

 

[zxcytsim]

Sometimes, even with access to casual fun, it still doesn’t satisfy the deeper need for connection. It doesn’t seem like your looks or social skills are the problem, but it might have more to do with your mindset. If you’re not interested in meeting new people, there could be an underlying reason.. maybe burnout, emotional baggage, or simply being unsure of what you really want right now.

There’s nothing wrong with exploring, whether it’s FWB, dating, or taking time for self-reflection. What matters is that you do it with a clear understanding of your own needs, rather than just going along with what seems like the next step. Try to figure out why adjusting feels difficult.. there might be patterns you haven’t noticed yet. And take your time, it’s okay to feel a little lost sometimes.

 

[Blackboard]

Marami pa sana akong sasabihin kaso nasabi na ni Ma'am zxcytsim at Boss CryptoLaboon. Pero sa tingin ko, tignan mo mabuti sarili mo, mag reflect ka sa mga nakaraan mo. Baka naman kaya mahirap ka mag adjust kasi dahil din sa past experience mo? Sa dami kasi ng nasabi mo, OP, tulad ng hindi mo naman naf-feel na lonely ka or what so ever, ni hindi mo nabanggit kung support ba sa'yo family or kung may deeper connection ba kayo ng family mo. Yes, tulad ng sabi mo may friends ka pero why not talk to your fam. first? Yes, yung iba merong hiya or takot makipag-usap sa family nila pero, jan kasi mabui-build up 'yung confidence mo sa ibang tao. Confidence is the key, OP. 'Yun lang. Sana makatulong. Hehehe

 

[GoatPhomator666]

Salamat boss